After Reading MacWhinney, Berry and Oliver
You’d think 2AM conversations would be nonsensical and funny,
not rational and sober avenues to despair. Round and round
and round we go, down the looped rabbit hole all new methods,
medicines, discoveries have to go to become less... detrimental.
Mental health in its first loop, still run by white ideas, marketing
and money. Your attack of nerves will be slotted into a category
and prescribed away on a little white notepad. When they want you
to be diagnosed with something else, they will call you. A small bunch
of bright-cheeked Alices, ineffectively expose their bare feet against
the world, despairing in pages and pages of parentheses, in sweat
and tears in the field, against old and power-tripping tyrants
and failed pleas for some small allowance to at least feed themselves
while they try and spoon feed the world a new perspective—tossing
tired, scrunched up balls of paper down winding, echoing alleys to knock,
knock, knock at rows and rows and rows of giant bowling pins
holding money in one clubbed hand and brightly coloured pills
in the other. Like some Wonderland-grotesque Lady Justice. The threat
of being engulfed sends us all scurrying barefoot for months in our puny
attempts to tip the balances. We all need poems in our shoes every morning
to help us rage against the gloom, to show us how brightly others have burned
and left evidence in the ashes of hope, of immeasurable laughter, of the harsh
calls of wild geese bringing life back, showing the way through the fox’s
clever tracks, reminding you, you do have a place, perhaps a purpose,
perhaps a flame so bright to burn to leave your ashes for another, to lead
them back from the brink, or up from the rabbit hole, to notice
again the movement of the sun and those sparkly pebbles of rain.
I Let Myself Feel
I let myself feel the pain of having my three-year-old son taken from me.
I let myself feel what it would be like to not have him in my arms, to know
he is somewhere else where they won't let him speak English, won't let him sing
his favourite songs, shave off his beautiful black hair and put him in some dreary
worn clothes. Would they feed him enough? Would they take care of him if he got sick?
Would I ever see him again? And if I camped out on the outskirts of his prison, would I
catch a glimpse of him? Would he know that I loved him and was trying to get him back,
that I hadn't abandoned him, that I wanted to stop those people from hurting him,
but forces bigger than me were getting in my way to him,
when I had always told him nothing could keep me from him?
If he came home—my bright, curious boy—would he be dulled? Afraid of me?
Afraid to speak English, knowing he'd be taken back to that place where it wasn't allowed,
where they punished him for being himself. How would it feel to feel this day in
and day out for the rest of my life? How would it feel to perhaps not only lose my
child's self but his life too, with no one to tell me until it was long past? Small bones
mercilessly buried in the cold ground. I have to turn off this imaginary agony that feels
all too real and echoes painfully throughout the rest of my day. Would I have survived
the real thing as so many parents did, going on living with only part of their heart pumping,
much to their dismay, for without the rest of their heart, what would be the point? My heart lives
in their little bodies. How would I live if they were gone? How would I ever forgive? How will I ever
not stop paying for my ancestors' crimes? How many generations lost, generations broken,
generations that will never be? Seven times seven times seven? How silent. How much silence
I hear from my teachers, from my people, my country. The silence is deafening.
Perhaps that's why so many of their songs sound like wordless, gut-wrenching cries
that slice straight through to the soul and drum, drum, drum into my heart. Drum, drum, drum
into my bones. Drum, drum, drum into the earth that took those small bodies into her embrace
where they couldn't be hurt anymore, where one day she would show them to the world
so their families could dig their fingers into the soil and be close to them once more.
I want to hear their names. I want to see all their names etched into a long hallway I can walk
through with my son's hand in mine and remember them and emerge with their heartbeats drum,
drum, drumming in tandem with his, drum, drum, drumming on in my thoughts and in these words
so others can hear them, see them, know them, remember them, love them.
Mary, Mary, quite contrary
How does your garden grow?
With Dalmatian toadflax and immoral acts
Where the waters meet and flow...
Where used to flourish balsamroot
and serviceberries galore,
long locks of beautiful braids
spanning seven times seven more.